A love journey by the river, a promise beneath the sun.

Welcome to our wedding website.

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We are so happy to share this moment of our lives with you. In July 2026, we will gather in Porto, Portugal, for five unforgettable days surrounded by the people who have shaped our story. Here you will find everything you need to join us for this celebration: travel information, our event schedule, RSVP links, and glimpses of the journey that brought us here. We cannot wait to celebrate with you in one of the most beautiful cities in the world.

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OUR STORY

Ruth and Mayowa first met in Lagos during a speaking engagement and connected over a shared passion for ideas and purpose. What began as a simple conversation about work soon turned into something deeper—an easy friendship filled with laughter, faith, and curiosity.

They quickly discovered how naturally their worlds aligned. Both shared a love for food, travel, family, and for making the most of every moment life offers. Each conversation drew them closer, until friendship quietly became love.

During Ruth’s birthday holiday in Crete, Greece, Mayowa asked her to spend forever with him. It was another unforgettable moment in their journey together—one that felt both spontaneous and destined.

Now, as they prepare to say their vows in Porto, they look forward to celebrating surrounded by those who have shared in their laughter, their adventures, and their story of love.

A Week to Remember

We look forward to celebrating our love with you across five beautiful days in Porto. Each event has been designed to blend the warmth of our roots with the timeless charm of Portugal.

welcome evening

Join us for welcome cocktails and canapés on the terrace of Vinha Boutique Hotel as we open our wedding week together. A relaxed evening by the riverside to reconnect, laugh, and begin the festivities.

Monday, July 27, 2026

TIME: 7:00 pm

VENUE: Vinha Boutique Hotel

DRESS CODE: Summer Sundown Chic

Ladies: Flowing floral or pastel dresses with comfortable heels or sandals.

Gentlemen: Linen or cotton shirts paired with chinos or tailored trousers. Loafers or dress sandals are perfect.

(Think relaxed elegance, warm tones, and effortless summer style by the riverside.)

the nigerian engagement

A celebration of culture, family, and heritage. Expect color, music, and joy as we honor our traditions and the love that brings two families together.

Tuesday, July 28, 2026

TIME: 3:00 pm until late

VENUE: Vinha Boutique Hotel Garden House

DRESS CODE: Aso-Ebi (details to be communicated)

Rest & Explore porto

A day to unwind, explore, and enjoy Porto at your own pace. Wander through the city’s cobbled streets, visit the wine cellars along the Douro, or simply relax by the river and take in the view.

Wednesday, July 29, 2026

The Wedding & Reception

The heart of our celebration. We exchange our vows at Torre Bella Estate, surrounded by family, friends, and the beauty of the Douro. Dinner, music, and dancing will follow beneath the stars.

Thursday, July 30, 2026

TIME: 4:00 pm until late

VENUE: Torre Bella Estate

DRESS CODE:
Men:
 Formal / Black Tie

Women: Glam evening dresses with fascinators or hats

farewell brunch

A morning to share one last meal, a few more laughs, and say our goodbyes before everyone departs.

Friday, July 31, 2026

TIME: 10:00 am until late

VENUE: Vinha Boutique Hotel Terrace

DRESS CODE: Relaxed Resort Casual

Ladies: Light summer dresses, linen sets, or casual jumpsuits in white, beige, or soft pastel tones. Flat sandals or comfortable slides are perfect for an easy morning look.

Gentlemen: Linen or cotton shirts (short or rolled sleeves) paired with chinos or tailored shorts. Loafers, espadrilles, or clean sneakers work well for a laid-back but neat appearance.

dress code

what to wear

Each day of our celebration has its own atmosphere and style. Dress comfortably while reflecting the spirit of the day.

Welcome Evening:
Smart casual, light, and elegant.

 

Engagement Ceremony:
Aso-Ebi (details to be communicated).

 

Wedding & Reception:
Men: Formal or black tie.
Women: Glam evening dresses with fascinators or hats.

 

Farewell Brunch:
Resort chic or light summer whites.

Ruth & Mayowa

Travel & Accommodation

Your Journey to Porto

Our celebration takes place in the riverside city of Porto, Portugal, known for its relaxed charm, historic streets, and breathtaking views.

AIRPORT

Francisco Sá Carneiro Airport (OPO),

approximately 25 minutes from Vinha Boutique Hotel.

TRANSPORTATION OPTIONS

Guests may travel by private transfer, taxi, or

car hire, but we will also be arranging coordinated shuttles

for convenience.

Arrival Transfers – Monday, July 27, 2026

WHERE TO STAY

While Vinha Boutique Hotel will host a select group of family and close friends,
there are several nearby hotels and accommodations for guests to choose from,
ranging from affordable to luxury options.

We are also working toward securing group discounts for guests who book within our wedding block.

RSVP

Join the Celebration

We would love to know if you will be joining us in Porto. Please take a moment to complete the RSVP form below.

Gifts & Honeymoon Fund

Having you celebrate with us in Portugal means more than any present could. For those who wish to share a gesture of love, we have created a honeymoon fund to help us build memories from our first adventure as husband and wife. Links to contribute or send gifts will be shared here closer to the date.

Your presence is our gift

FAQs

Good to Know Before You Go

Do I need a visa to travel to Portugal?

Guests traveling with Nigerian passports will require a short-stay Schengen visa. We recommend applying early through the Portuguese consulate or a visa application center.

When should I arrive in Porto?

We suggest arriving by Sunday, July 26, or early Monday, July 27, to enjoy the welcome evening and settle in comfortably.

Which airport should I fly into?

Fly into Francisco Sá Carneiro Airport (OPO), which is approximately 25 minutes from Vinha Boutique Hotel.

How do I get from the airport to my hotel?

We will be providing complimentary shuttle transfers from Francisco Sá Carneiro Airport (OPO) to Vinha Boutique Hotel and select nearby hotels on Monday, July 27, 2026.
Shuttles will run throughout the day in coordination with major flight arrivals. Guests can confirm their arrival times when submitting their RSVP to be assigned to a shuttle group.
For those arriving outside the scheduled times, taxis and private transfers are readily available at the airport.

Can I bring a guest?

If your invitation allows a guest, their name will appear on your RSVP form. Please confirm your guest’s attendance when you reply.

What is the expected weather in July?

Warm and sunny, with average temperatures between 25–30°C. Evenings are cooler, so bring a light jacket or wrap.

What should I wear to each event?

Refer to our Dress Code section for full details. In summary: Smart casual for the welcome event, traditional attire for the engagement, formal or glam for the wedding, and resort chic for brunch.

Are children welcome?

Our main events are designed primarily for adults, but families with children under 9 years old are very welcome to attend. We will have professional babysitting services available during the key celebrations to ensure everyone enjoys the festivities comfortably.
If you plan to attend with your children, please let us know when completing your RSVP so we can help coordinate childcare or share family-friendly activity recommendations in Porto.

Will transportation be provided between venues?

Yes. Complimentary shuttle transfers will be provided between Vinha Boutique Hotel and Torre Bella Estate on the wedding day to make travel easy for all guests.
Final pickup and return times will be shared closer to the date once the schedule is confirmed.

Who can I contact for more information?

For any questions, please reach out to our planner, Bola, at [insert email] or via WhatsApp once added to the group chat.

Contact & Help

Stay Connected

If you have any questions about travel, accommodation, or logistics, please reach out through our wedding WhatsApp group or contact our planner directly.

Planner Contact:

Bola — bola@example.com